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Are you a sissy porn addict? (or porn addict in general?)

Any human activity that produces lots of dopamine in the brain can become addictive. Well, guess what: porn causes a hell of a lot of dopamine to flood the brain. And what makes it particularly addictive is that unlike drugs or alcohol – you don’t have to go buy it – you just have to whip out Google and…geronimo!!! The time might have come to ask yourself…

TEST: Am I a porn addict?

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MAIN ARTICLE: Sissy porn addiction, transgender impulse and crossdreamer fantasies.

For the past couple of months I’ve been considering the following hypothesis:

…That crossdreamers (and ‘sissies’) who do not fully express their femininity in the real world end up spending more time in porn world. This is because it is the only outlet for their femininity, and whether they know it or not…it is deeply important for their mental health to express that femininity.

If you think this applies to you then read on…

Defining porn addiction

Porn addiction can be defined as a porn habit that effects your life negatively. In other words, porn addiction is not decided by how much you use porn but by the effect it has on your life.

Imagine you are a loving husband, devoted father, brilliant employee and community activist…you could be a heavy porn user but because you are flourishing in all areas of your personal and professional life, it’s just an innocuous hobby.

However, imagine you are a bad husband, bad father, unemployed, and help nobody in the community… and you are a heavy porn user. If the porn is stopping you from looking for jobs and not allowing you to perform sexually with your wife and taking up time you should spend with your kids…you are a full blown porn addict.

A more realistic scenario however is that porn doesn’t massively effect your life but if it didn’t exist you would probably make better use of your time. This would make you a semi-porn addict.

Beating semi porn addiction

Serious cases of porn addiction should be dealt with by professionals. Semi-porn addiction is much easier to deal with and should be attacked on 3 fronts:

1. Recognition:

recognize that excessive porn use is not good for your life – and almost certainly not good for your soul. Make a commitment to cut back. As abstinence always fails you should not try to live as a Gregorian monk and give up masturbating or porn, but decide how much time you are willing to expend on porn and stick to it.

2. Logistical:

Reorganize your day / house / life in a way that reduces the porn options. There are many things you can do. For example…

• – Instead of waking up and jerking off – go for a run.
• – Kill the wifi connection at certain times.
• – Store your computer somewhere else (i.e. not next to your bed)

3. Life change:

A lot of people end up spending all day in pornworld because they don’t have their life sorted out. Go for a long walk and ask yourself these 3 questions.

• – What do I want from life?
• – How do I get it (i.e. what plan do I need to make)?
• – How can I organize my days and weekends so I can execute my plan?

When you feel your life is going somewhere it’s less likely you’ll waste hours and hours on porn…you will spend most of your time executing your plan.