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POLL: Do you really see yourself as a ‘sissy’?

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Hi,  Anna here…

I’m always interested to know if sissies really see themselves as sissies, or they just use the term because everyone else does. A sizable minority aren’t aware of the wider debate about sexual behavior that crosses genders.

I thought I’d give you a brief review of current terminology and then ask you how you see your sexuality.

Sissies whom see their fem side as purely sexual naturally tend to favor identifications which are more sexual.

Sissies who see their fem side as purely sexual naturally tend to favor identifications which are more sexual. Thanks to Felix Conrad for the pics!

1. Autogynephiliac:  a man who gets turned on by the thought of himself as a woman. A term coined by Raymond Blanchard and despised by transgender folks because it expounds they idea they transition for sexual reasons.

2. Transvestic fetishism:  An old school psychiatric term for men who like to dress up as girls and suck cock.

3. Crossdreamer:  a term coined by Jack Molay. A fluffier, more user friendly term for autogynephiliacs. Most crossdreamers love their fem side much more than your average sissy. Visit their forum by clicking on the image.


4. Humiliation fetishist: A humiliation fetishist stresses the role of humiliation in sissy fantasies, believing that the whole girl thing is just a tool of the mind to further humiliate you. In other words…you don’t really have a girl side…you just find it incredibly humiliating to become a girl. Their reddit is here


5. Transgender: transgender people tend to see fantasizing about being a woman as being linked to being transgender. If you point out that you’re just a cum-slutty little sissy then they’ll point out that you’re suppressing your girl side and one day you’ll see the truth.

So what’s the difference between a sissy and all of the above?  I’m not sure to be honest, so I leave you to answer the question yourself in our poll.

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  • Chris somethingorother December 25, 2016, 2:08 pm

    Confused as hell. On the outside I try to be at peace. I have a bullshit dominant attitude.

    Sexually, I’m not attracted to males but wish some Mistress would make me her slave, humiliate and embarrass me and make me her cock-hungry slut when I’m horny but I also like vanilla with a hint of domination. I’m not huge, but I definitely exceed the average you posted in your article about your SPH book and size mattering. I don’t have post-orgasm guilt, as you talked about in another article.

    Where I’m from it’s and my family all find it incredibly shameful for people to not be religious, which I broke out as an atheist already, and to be gay/have gay desires. As far as I remember I’ve tried cross-dressing. I like the ideas of both being incredibly manly and feminine and I have to also support and be around my family.

    I know there’s nothing to be ashamed of for my sexuality but I can’t help but feel that way and know my family would drop me like a bad habit if I did anything.

    I love the website and what you do. Sorry for all the text. Continue to do great things Mistress Elle Mesen.

    • Elle Mesen December 27, 2016, 4:58 am

      I respect your honesty and your courage in embracing atheism in the face of your family’s religion. There has been no greater force for shame, war and intolerance in the history of humanity than the Abrahamic religions.


    • Katedavies January 26, 2017, 3:34 pm

      I’m aware that when dressed I definitely crave the company of a nice man with a big cock , also I can feel other things happening to my body sexually that is and I get very aroused xxx

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  • sara December 27, 2016, 5:44 pm

    Its hard to classify myself. I love the look of a hard cock and what it can do and have felt what it can do but I am not attracted to men in any way except for their cock

    • Elle Mesen January 20, 2017, 7:11 am

      Don’t worry, sissy…after I’ve caged you, reconditioned your mind and pumped you full of silicone and hormones…you’ll crave men all day and night.

  • Flora January 1, 2017, 4:40 pm

    I started to see myself as 1. then I passed states until 2. Even today I do fluctuate between states, but I know what I like and I like to see myself as a sissy and I love being treated as a sissy. This is the way I feel good. And that’s why I’m looking for an owner that would control me with a cage and help me transition.

  • Ashlie January 16, 2017, 10:21 pm

    I identify as male but could never tolerate developing as a man. The thought of getting all hairy and masculine broke my heart, so I told my doctor I’m transgender to get on hormones. Sissy is the perfect term for me though, because I don’t consider myself a woman, but I totally love being like one.

    Also being called a sissy really turns me on and feels amazing. It’s not humiliation, because I idolize women and feel honored to have so much in common with them. It’s not autogynephilia since I don’t pretend to be a woman to get off. I mean the fantasies where I have a vagina are pretty great, but in those fantasies my identity is the same. Something about being a feminized, submissive sissy boy is what causes that stirring in my panties.

    • Elle Mesen January 20, 2017, 7:06 am

      Your devotion to the superior gender is clear and to be commended. Furthermore, your unstinting acceptance and recognition of the fact that you are a naughty little sissy shows a high degree of self knowledge. Gold star…you may milk yourself as a reward!

  • Randi January 31, 2017, 4:16 am

    I am a sissy, and part time CD. Wear panties most of the time, have worn them into adult theater, stripped to my panties and been cirlce jerked on by 4 cocks. Want to be forced sissy, made to suck and fuck, take multiple loads of cum and swallow. CRAVE it most of the time, eat my cum often.

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